Its not about how many friends you have. Or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you are alone.it
Isn't about who you're dating, who you used to date, how many people
You've dated, or if you haven't been with anyone at all. It isn't
About who you have kissed. Its not about sex. It isn't about who
Your family is or how much money they have. Or what kind of car you
Drive. Or where you are sent to school. Its not about how beautiful
Or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,
Or what kind of music you listen to. Its not about if your hair is
Blonde, red, black, or brown. Or if your skin is too light or too
Dark. Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart
Everybody else thinks you are, or how smart standardized tests say
You are. It's not about what clubs you're in or how good you are
At "your" sport. It's not about representing your whole being on a
Piece of paper and seeing who will "accept the written you." LIFE
JUST ISN'T.

But, life is about who you love and who you hurt. Its about who you
Make happy or unhappy purposefully. It's about keeping or betraying
Trust. It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon. It's
About what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. About
Starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It's about what
Judgments you pass and why. And who your judgements are spread to.
Its about who you've ignored with full control and intention. It's
About jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge. Its about carrying
Inner hate and love, letting it grow, and spreading it. But most of
All, its about using your life to touch or poison other people's
Hearts in such a way that could have never occurred alone. Only YOU
Choose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what
life's all about.